Bereavement & Grief Library

This collection of resources focuses on grief after a death.

Here you’ll find guidance for when someone has died, is dying, or when families and communities are navigating life after a loss. It includes support for parents, carers, and professionals helping children and young people through bereavement, whether the death was expected, sudden, traumatic, or complex.

The Bereavement & Grief Library explores themes such as:

  • Death and dying
  • Life after a death
  • Sudden, traumatic, or unexpected loss
  • Suicide and complex grief
  • Supporting families, peers, schools, and communities after a death

These guides help adults understand what grief can look like at different ages, offer practical ways to talk and respond, and reassure you that there is no single ‘right’ way to grieve.

Supporting children and young people through terminal diagnosis

When Everything Changes

Supporting children when someone they love has a terminal illness

Watching Someone Fade

Supporting young people when someone they love has a terminal illness

Death, Dying, and the Time Around a Death

Curious About Death

Talking honestly with a child about death

Through Their Eyes: Babies & Toddlers (16–25yrs)

Understanding grief, worry, and what children and young people need most

Through Their Eyes: Babies & Toddlers (0–2yrs)

Understanding grief, worry, and what children and young people need most

Through Their Eyes: Babies & Toddlers (0–2yrs)

Understanding grief, worry, and what children and young people need most

Through Their Eyes: Babies & Toddlers (0–2yrs)

Understanding grief, worry, and what children and young people need most

Through Their Eyes: Babies & Toddlers (0–2yrs)

Understanding grief, worry, and what children and young people need most

Time to Say Goodbye

Supporting children and young people around the time of death

Talking About funerals

Helping children & young people understand funerals and rituals after a death

When Their Things Remain

A Glimmer Guide to Facing Bedrooms, Houses, and Belongings After Loss

Bereavement across ages & relationships

Too Young For This, Too Old for That

Support bereaved young adults

When Their Friend Dies

Supporting a child or young person after the death of a peer

Older and Afraid

When a young adult fears losing a parent

Grief within Families & Identity

When a Father is Grieving

How a parent’s grief can affect family life

When a Mother is Grieving

How a parent’s grief can affect family life

When Boys Are Grieving

Supporting boys & young men through loss

When girls Are Grieving

Supporting girls & young women through loss

Complex & layered relationships

Grieving From A Distance

When a child or young person grieves an estranged family member

Loving Someone Who Hurt You

When a child or young person is grieving someone who also caused harm

When Losses Keep Coming

Supporting children and young people through multiple or cumulative losses

Pregnancy Loss, fertility grief and baby loss

When A Baby Doesn’t Come

Helping young children understand pregnancy or baby loss

They’re Old Enough to Notice - What Do I Tell Them?

Supporting older children and pre-teens after pregnancy or baby loss

What If This Happens to Me Too?

Supporting young people after pregnancy or baby loss

Grieving the Baby Who Never Came

Parenting while carrying fertility or pregnancy loss

When IVF Involves Loss

Supporting adults through IVF-related grief

Carrying Personal Loss While Supporting Children

For caring professionals

When a Baby, Child or Young Person Dies

After Baby Loss

Supporting children and young people after pregnancy or baby loss

When a Child Dies

Supporting children after the death of a baby or child

When a Young Person Dies

Supporting young people after the death of a peer

When a teen dies

Helping children understand and grieve the death of a teenager

Sudden, Traumatic or Unexpected Loss

When the World Shatters

Understanding sudden or unexpected bereavement in children and young people

Suicide and suicide-related Bereavement

When Someone Dies by Suicide

Supporting a child or young person after a death by suicide

After The Scare

Supporting young people when a peer has attempted or died by suicide

Talking About Suicide Gently

How to talk to children about suicide

Talking About Suicide Honestly

How to talk to young people about suicide

When a Community Is Affected

Supporting families after a suicide within a school or community

Supporting Children and Young People With Grief in Schools, Church & Communities

When Someone Is Dying

How schools and communities can support a child or young person

When a Community Grieves

Supporting a school or community during serious illness child or young person

Returning After Loss

Supporting pupils after a bereavement

Grief in the Classroom

Supporting children and young people after a death

When Peers Are Hurting

How youth groups can respond to grief and loss

Creating Compassionate Communities

Supporting children and young people through shared grief