Living well through grief Library

Caring for children and young people through grief often means carrying a great deal yourself.

This part of the Glimmer Library focuses on you, recognising that how you are supported matters, and that looking after yourself is not an extra, but part of the work of caring.

Living Well Through Grief offers guidance to help parents, carers, and professionals:

  • Notice the impact grief and stress may be having on them
  • Find steadiness while supporting others
  • Understand emotional, physical, and nervous system responses
  • Take small, realistic steps toward care and restoration

These guides sit alongside the rest of the Glimmer Library, gently reminding you that supporting children and young people does not mean doing it alone or at the expense of your own wellbeing.

Living Well Through Grief

Caring for Yourself With AMBER

Supporting your own wellbeing while supporting a grieving child or young person

Caring for You when a child's mental health is declining

Supporting your own wellbeing while supporting a grieving child or young person

Living Well With AMBER

Helping children live alongside grief using the AMBER Approach

Life After Death & Continuing Bonds

Living After Death

Helping children and young people adjust to life after loss

Ways to Remember

Helping children and young people maintain connection and memory

Carrying Them With Us

Supporting continuing bonds through everyday life

Hope Doesn’t Mean Forgetting

Supporting children and young people to live fully while remembering

When Meaning Turns Into Action

Before You Say Yes

Thinking about fundraising, campaigns, and causes after a death

Who Owns the Story?

Understanding consent, control, and choice in memory-based fundraising

When Grief Becomes a Cause

Supporting families navigating campaigns and advocacy after loss

You Don’t Have to Decide Yet

Giving yourself time before starting something in a loved one’s name

Honouring Without Obligation

Ways to remember and act that don’t involve fundraising